You plan and plan but sometimes things change...

This past few weeks have been very hard for me and my cats. Me and my wife decided to part way and thank god she left me Sammi and Isla for now. She is planning on taking them soon and I'm just scared she won't care for them in a manner that will keep them healthy for a long life.
I have been spending a lot of time researching how to better communicate with my cats, how to feed them properly, how to take care of their coat and keep them busy in the winter season... I know that to make my cats lead a better and happier life, I need to spend time to learn what's best for them and what is not.
My worry is that my ex disagrees with me. Unfortunately she believes that cats don't need anything but enough dry food to last the day and a clean litter box. Of course she loves them and plays with them once in a while, but if you are a true cat lover you know that's not enough.
I truly tried explaining to her the benefits to a protein rich diet and an active cat, rather than filling your pet up on carbohydrates (dry food) and letting them babysit an apartment, basically couch sitting all day. I don't know if she just doesn't believe me (and anyone else for that matter who cares enough about their cats to read about what's good for them) or she just genuinely does not care if my precious cats live 5 more years or 20 more years...
I'm sorry this post is a bit sad and projects my frustration but this is a part of life and if anyone has any advice for me, I'll be happy to entertain it. I don't wish on anyone to have to give up their cats in such a way. I love Sammi and Isla and no matter where they are or what happends I'll do what ever is in my power to see that they are taken care of!



